You Are Definitely Not Going To Hate This: The Frights
By Mary Kang
Who knew that the same kids who played in your small high school theater would one day play sold out shows at some of the most popular venues across the country?
San Diego-based rock band, The Frights, have blown up the music scene with their new sound and unique, DIY music videos that are reminiscent of, what Interview Magazine calls, βthe intersection of Keith Haring's artworks and Alfred Hitchcock's Vertigoβ. Their uncontrollably large personalities and intoxicating stage presence can only be matched - or maybe even challenged - by that of their dedicated fans, which I got to see first hand at their sold-out show at NYC's Webster Hall.
With their first nation-wide tour alongside SWMRS and the release of their latest album, You Are Going to Hate This (produced by Zac Carper), The Frights have had their plates full and we havenβt even made it halfway through this year yet! Luckily, I was able to catch up with them in their rehearsal space in San Diego to chat about their new shift in sound, desires to work with Kanye, strange encounters with RiFF RAFF (and his neon Air Jordans) at Beach Goth, and, of course, the ever so inspirational *Marc Finn on the mother fucking drums*.
POND: How did The Frights form?
MIKEY CARNEVALE: Me and this other guy started this band - well - a band after high school and then he went to college and all my other friends went to college and we wanted to do a show with that same style so I was like letβs do a fun little surf punk show. Like, βHey Richard,β - me and Richard were in a band at the time - βDo you want to play a show as well?β and he was like βYes, I play bass,β so we did that and for whatever reason, it took off really fast and then kicked that guy out, got Marc in and brought Ryan on to play guitar, because Ryan was playing drums for us while we were waiting for Marc to get back from Boston, from school. So it all came together like sweet bliss; a beautiful fairytale of The Frights.
POND: You guys are all from San Diego; what is it about the San Diego music scene that makes it unique and how do you think you fit into it?
RICHARD DOTSON: Originally we didnβt fit in, or at least I didnβt feel like we fit in.
CARNEVALE: I still donβt feel like we fit in in San Diego. San Diego has a really, really strange music scene. We have a huge bar scene so when we first started when we were 18, weβd play bars, but they kicked us out immediately after. As weird as it is, thereβs a lot of older bands that kind of just play bars, and they all play shows together. And then all of a sudden, Burger hit San Diego and [all] of these fucking Burger bands - sorry if I canβt curse - but fuck it, all of these fucking Burger bands started sprouting up and became this huge kind of thing and everybody started playing the Chez Cafe again and it was cool to play underground places. Like fuck SOMA, theyβre run by the man... And then it just kinda became this clique where all the bands were playing the same shows and we definitely didnβt fit into that; it was just a weird scene... I donβt really know what the fuck is going on in San Diego.
MARC FINN: I compare it a lot to some east coast places like Boston and New York where Iβve visited and where thereβs a really established hierarchy which in some ways is good, but in other ways kinda sucks because you have to do what everyone else is doing. San Diego is pretty much like the wild west, wide open and stuff.
CARNEVALE: Yeah the wild west of rich suburban kids starting punk bands.
DOTSON: Itβs kind of like "The Wild Wild West" starring Will Smith.
CARNEVALE: Hahaha a bunch of kids who donβt wear deodorant and start surf punk bands.
DOTSON: Yeah...Stevie Wonder is a big influence, what question are we on again?
Marc Finn, drummer
Ryan Ward, guitarist
Mikey Carnevale, singer & guitarist
Richard Dotson, bassist
POND: If you could collaborate with, work with, or tour with anyone, who would it be?
DOTSON: Like a band? Or in any capacity?
RYAN WARD: Taylor Swift.
DOTSON: What kind of collaboration? Musical?
CARNEVALE: Sexual?
WARD: Both. I mean if sheβs into it.
THE FRIGHTS: *laughs*
FINN: On the singular βrealβ....
DOTSON: The Under the Sun tour - thereβs a tour every year, itβs kind of a fluctuating collection of bands but last year or the year before, it was Sugar Ray, Smashmouth, Blueβs Traveller, Everclear, 311? Whatβs that band that does βAmberβ?
CARNEVALE: 311.
DOTSON: Yeah, 311. Anyways, the pinnacle of that βCalifornia good good."
CARNEVALE: It really is! If there was such a thing as a βCalifornia band," it has to be all the bands on that tour. Thatβs California.
FINN: They should form a super group.
CARNEVALE: For better or worse, thatβs California. Um yeah, I think that would be good. I think a collaboration with Kanye would be great.
DOTSON: Iβd be scared, Iβd be intimidated.
CARNEVALE: I mean you just sit back and let him do his thing, and we kind of you know - βWhat do you wanna do, Kanye?β Thatβd be cool.
WARD: All of the Smith children.
CARNEVALE: Oh like Will Smith and Jaden Smith?
DOTSON: Theyβre certifiable geniuses. They would bring us to the next level.
FINN: Jaden Smith is an incredible rapper.
DOTSON: His Instagram is really good too, have you seen his Instagram? He will post - I mean like - Iβm not gonna try to describe it, Iβm not gonna do a good job of it. Itβs very aesthetically pleasing if you look at his page and not as his individual posts as they come up in your feed.
POND: You have a new album out, what was writing that like? What was the process that went into making the album?
CARNEVALE: It was very exhausting, but very fun. Itβs very different from anything weβve put out before. Zac produced it, from FIDLAR. We went up [to the recording studio] pretty much every weekend and took a total of four months going up on the weekends and stuff. Itβs the best thing weβve ever done in our opinion for sure. We called it You are Going to Hate This because itβs kinda like -
DOTSON: Itβs a departure.
CARNEVALE: Yeah, our scene is very judgmental you know. Kids are very underground and -
DOTSON: Loyal to a specific sound.
CARNEVALE: Yeah, itβs like, βOh, itβs gonna be that good fucking lo-fi,β like well, the only reason that sounded that way before was because we couldnβt afford to sound better. And you know, it was cool to sound that way like, βYeah, letβs record a tape! And now give me some fucking reverb! You got a reverb machine?! Cool!β We all have this stupid shit that like doesnβt - well - looking back on it, itβs all insecurities. Reverb is a huge insecurity regardless of who tells you what. Itβs an insecurity of your voice and how you play guitar. This time Zac was like, βNope. No reverb!β and it was really hard. It was like, βWhat do you mean no reverb?! Weβre The fuckinβ Frights, dude! We have huge insecurities about ourselves.β
The writing process was also different because pretty much the whole first record was written in the studio. Before, we wrote the songs; you know, weβd have a song, jam on it, and then Iβd make up words. This time, I wrote the song, did demos of the song, sent them to Zac, feedback, and then went in. We werenβt prepared. And even now, next time we do a record, Iβd wanna be even more prepared because even so, we had the songs prepared but when we went in, it was still like, βAlright, letβs fuck around with it,β and we were adding shit onto it as it came together. It would be nice to take even more time than we did this time. Itβs definitely different. Some people will hate it, some people will like it.
DOTSON: I think this record is what weβve always wanted to sound like but never were really able to sound like and Iβm afraid that some people are really gonna be confused by how different it sounds from what weβve released in the past but in reality, this is - I think - truer to what we want to sound like as a band than anything.
FINN: One of my favorite things and what really helped set this record on this path was when we brought these songs in for the first couple of days with Zac and we listened to all the demos and started doing the basic tracks and stuff, we would just change everything just because it was another way to do it. Like we would have some suggestions on a whole new vibe or way to treat this song and it would sound completely different from the demos, like that kind of process; not being afraid to not sound like us was really helpful with that.
CARNEVALE: Another thing that people should understand about sounding different is that, our first record, I wrote those songs when I was 18. Itβs like, Iβm not 18, Iβm not fresh outta high school thinking about my girlfriend who was in college and I broke up with her for 2 years. This is a different time. So itβs like, I didnβt know I wasnβt supposed to fucking change. Itβs like we could do the same thing but that would be so boring! I could easily give you Frights 2; if you want Frights 2, weβll make Frights 2 for you but itβs boring as fuck!
FINN: Thereβs no reason to do what weβve done before.
CARNEVALE: I get angry about this sometimes. Iβm sitting at home like, βThose mother fuckers donβt want me to changeβ¦ *continues to mumble angrily*....β
DOTSON: Itβs all internal though because we donβt know if anybody hates it or not! We just project onto people βYou are going to hate thisβ, I mean we called it that - You are Going to Hate This.
CARNEVALE: Well we ran into a kid at Guitar Center today and he heard the first single and was like, βYou are going to hate this. I think youβre right. I think Iβm gonna hate it.β
DOTSON: Was that a joke?
FINN: What?!
CARNEVALE: I donβt know if it was a joke.
DOTSON: It sounded like a joke to me.
CARNEVALE: I mean he could be. He just said he didnβt like that record. Regardless -
DOTSON: EVERYONEβS AGAINST US, DONβT YOU GET IT?
WARD: Canβt hear the haters.
POND: Whatβs your favorite song on the album?
FINN: I mean, I like all of them. I think βOf Age." Itβs the last song on the record.
WARD: I was also gonna say βOf Ageβ.
CARNEVALE: Definitely mine too.
FINN: Or βAfraid of the Darkβ.
WARD: That was gonna be my second.
FINN: ["Of Age" is] really a diss track.
CARNEVALE: Itβs pretty much a diss track. I like that song a lot.
DOTSON: I like that song too, but Iβm gonna say βTungsβ. Not to be the dissenting opinion but I think itβs a fun little tropical fiesta. Upbeat. Itβs the βCali good goodβ for sure.
CARNEVALE: Oddly enough, the old songs on the record are the ones Iβm most scared of people hating.
DOTSON: Yeah me too.
CARNEVALE: Iβm most scared about people hating βTungsβ and people hating βPuppy Knucklesβ. βKidsβ, Iβm not worried about people hating. But βPuppy Knucklesβ and βTungsβ Iβm pretty worried about.β
FINN: βPuppy Knucklesβ represents just how far weβre going into new directions and stuff. Itβs the point of the record where youβre gonna make your decision if you like or hate what weβre doing. Itβs pretty cool. I like it for what itβs worth.
POND: What is the weirdest thing to ever happen to you guys on tour or at a show?
THE FRIGHTS: *long silence*
DOTSON: Weβre pretty fucking boringβ¦
WARD: I accidentally flipped off two people I thought were Sam and Ryan -
THE FRIGHTS: *all start talking at once about Ryan almost getting his ass kicked and fearing for his life*
FINN: I was so scared that he was gonna get like killed.
WARD: I thought I was gonna wake up with my tongue cut out.
DOTSON: We were walking from our van to our hotel room in Santa Cruz and there were these two guys on this balcony and we thought it was Mikeyβs brother Sam and another person of our posse and as we were walking, what did you even say to them?
WARD: I didnβt say anything! I was just walking and flipping them off!
THE FRIGHTS: *all start flipping off each other*
DOTSON: And you hear a really gruff voice like, βYou got a problem, bro?!β
WARD: I was instantly sober. Like, βHoly shit. Thatβs not Samβ¦.β
DOTSON: They were tough looking guys too!
CARNEVALE: Richard puked a lot on his 21st birthday.
FINN: That was fun.
DOTSON: Uh huh.
CARNEVALE: Thatβs about the whole story right there.
DOTSON: But who doesnβt?